Are you in an abusive relationship?
Your partner does not like your friends who've been with you since childhood. How would he/she behave?
Your partner will forbid you from meeting or talking to any of your childhood friends.
Your partner will get angry every time you meet your friends.
Your partner will meet your friends and accompany you even though he/she does not like them.
Does your partner criticize you and embarrass you in front of everyone?
No, your partner never criticizes you in front of others. If your partner has something embarrassing to say, he/she will say it behind closed doors.
You are going through a bad phase in life emotionally and physically. You have been out of shape for the last couple of months. How does your partner react?
Your partner calls you fat, ugly and other insulting words.
Your partner forces you to go to the gym even if you don't want to or are unfit to exercise.
Your partner understands your situation and organizes professional help for you.
You are sick and you are unable to do your share of housework. How does your partner react?
Your partner gets angry and starts blaming you for being sick all the time. He even thinks that you are faking your illness and refuses to do your share of work.
Your partner gets frustrated but he/she does your share of work.
Your partner understands that you are ill and willingly does your share of work.
Does your partner ever threaten to harm you or kill you?
Yes. Your partner has threatened to harm/kill you often.
Your partner has threatened you, but that was when he/she was in a fit of rage.
Your partner has never threatened to harm/kill you.
You and your partner have come out for dinner with friends. While eating, you spill some food in your partner's lap. How will your partner react?
Your partner will hurl abuses at you.
Your partner will give you an angry look.
Your partner will laugh it off.
Has your partner ever cheated on you?
Yes, your partner has cheated on you multiple times. But you are afraid to breakup with your partner because there are many other issues.
Your partner has cheated on you once and you have forgiven him/her.
Your partner has never cheated on you.
You and your partner have had a busy day and you are both tired. You are extremely sleepy and are about to doze off when your partner makes sexual advances towards you. How will you react?
Your partner will force himself/herself on you and have his/her way.
Your partner will keep asking you to reciprocate his/her sexual advances.
Your partner will be angry and frustrated, but will not force himself/herself on you.
Is your partner addicted to drugs or alcohol?
Yes. Your partner is addicted and refuses to quit his/her vices. Most of your time is spent dealing with your partner's addiction.
Your partner is addicted but he/she is also trying to quit.
No. Your partner is not addicted.
Are you in an abusive relationship?
You are in an abusive relationship.
You seem to be in an abusive relationship. Your partner threatens you and seems to ignore even the basic courtesy and concern that two partners are supposed to have.
You are in a bad relationship.
Your relationship is bad, but not abusive. You and your partner seem to have major issues with each other which you must iron out.
You are in a healthy relationship.
Your relationship with your partner is not abusive. Your partner understands you and respects you.
Your relationship suffers from mood swings.
Sometimes your relationship is absolutely normal. Other times, it turns out to be abusive. Your relationship is moody, not necessarily abusive all the time.